It’s been said – by me – the issue which originally prompts seeking counseling/therapy/(whatever misnomer you choose) is not the true issue. Sure, it is probably an issue, but the underlying stuff heavily influences that particular issue and until some of it is resolved, then the issue will continue.
It’s psychology 101. Really. Human nature merges emotions with feelings and physical stuff. It plays out nearly daily in our personal and professional interactions. I have no desire to judge; however, my professional position warrants evaluating the mission’s needs with simple ability to do the job. Believe it or not, it can get very nasty when emotions overpower logic. Who needs common sense anyway.
In nearly every conversation with myself, and with others, I seek peace. Sure, it would be ideal on a global scale but many a hearts have changed when starting on a small scale. It’s called incrementalism. I think of it often, daily, continuously. Peace…in my heart, mind, and life. I can sense I’m getting close. Still waiting, somewhat more patiently than usual.
Lastly, if I could use this, I would.
Please – tell me what you think can be revealed that is so damaging to my reputation.
Please – because I’m well aware of my unpleasant past and I’d like to make sure the story is correct.
Please – do tell which stone you intend to throw so I may point you to the weakest window.
Please – paint your picture of beauty and sunshine so I can be the villain in your story.
Please – don’t forget to leave a comment because you can kiss my…forgiving heart and war-strengthened resolve…goodbye.
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I ask you –
Do you have any requests to add?
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